tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580811536270472661.post1282668597291178124..comments2023-06-01T10:42:43.293-04:00Comments on Utterly Sinful: Where's My Guidebook?Mistress Serenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11774311721999633866noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580811536270472661.post-19766552790700600742008-12-16T09:02:00.000-05:002008-12-16T09:02:00.000-05:00Girl, stop stressing about everything so much! I k...Girl, stop stressing about everything so much! I know it's easier said than done, trust me. I battled with depression because of things like that.<br>Who cares about a stupid Christmas tree? Who cares about what father in law thinks?<br>Just. Stop. Stressing.<br>And teach your husband to do the same. Then you won't have to worry about his health. Or your sanity.Bella@That damn expathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00441537825845749674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580811536270472661.post-73889136955435570212008-12-16T10:20:00.000-05:002008-12-16T10:20:00.000-05:00I think YOU should start typing, it would make you...I think YOU should start typing, it would make you rich AND help people at the same time. Sounds nice, no? <br>I don't feel like decorating for Xmas either, so I'm not. My mom about had a heart attack over that but oh well. My FIL is a sexist, racist POS who we stopped talking to when Elliot was born. <br>You'll find the answers that work for you, you have to. And if you don't, I'd say hit up the watermelon but save me a slice. In fact, make two.Caseyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13477976300026766137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580811536270472661.post-40424395952933225862008-12-16T15:21:00.000-05:002008-12-16T15:21:00.000-05:00Ok, some people read those books...Other people wr...Ok, some people read those books...<br><br>Other people write them!<br><br>You are definitely one of the writers. You don't let or want others to tell you how to solve your problems - you'll take care of them yourself, but you reserve the God-given right to bitch about them! As you should! <br><br>I think you need to keep away from my son and daughter-in-law. All of you together could be very dangerous! :)theoldguynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580811536270472661.post-16873877841596294192008-12-16T15:53:00.000-05:002008-12-16T15:53:00.000-05:00I didn't want to decorate this year so I didn&...I didn't want to decorate this year so I didn't. Told anyone who objected that it's not their house or their time, so tough.<br><br>My father in law? I'm not thin enough or pretty enough. The fact that his own son is in love with me is beside the point. <br><br><br>Do what YOU want to do. Feel how YOU want to feel. And tell everyone else to screw off. <br><br>And while you're at it, write one of those books :)Mad Womanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07596650736290691630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580811536270472661.post-16297235551309770582008-12-16T16:34:00.000-05:002008-12-16T16:34:00.000-05:00Yeah this is the most wonderful time of the year, ...Yeah this is the most wonderful time of the year, ain't it? Maybe you and the hubs need a little more "couples time" away from everyone else.Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18353422618806779674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580811536270472661.post-23756763292275801232008-12-16T23:25:00.000-05:002008-12-16T23:25:00.000-05:00I know, girl, I know. It's a shitass time of ...I know, girl, I know. It's a shitass time of year, and every little thing gets blown into a big thing. I've never once read a self-help book past the first chapter, because they are too annoying. I just make up my own handbooks as I go along.<br><br>I've got the same problem with my husband, but the more you try to get them to take better care of themselves, the worse they get. <br><br>I say get filling those watermelons and come on over and stare at my Christmas tree. Plus, the greatest diet trick on the planet is to eat lots of watermelon. Lose some water weight, and your mood will be improved in no time!Lolahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07370267947354641941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580811536270472661.post-1493009082941940562008-12-17T07:21:00.000-05:002008-12-17T07:21:00.000-05:00I just need a guidebook on "How to move to a ...I just need a guidebook on "How to move to a different country during the middle of the Holidays and not kill your children or husband" Does that one exist?Kathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16973125452842612070noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580811536270472661.post-49322996347157756092008-12-17T08:31:00.000-05:002008-12-17T08:31:00.000-05:00That damn Expat: I don't know if it's str...That damn Expat: I don't know if it's stress as much as it's irritation.<br><br>Casey: WOW! You wil on the FIL part! Yikes<br><br>The Old Guy: I love your son and daughter in law! But I love Will the most!<br><br>MadWoman: Thank you! I'm glad someone else likes to tell people to screw off!<br><br>Heather: We get lots of "couples time". He just needs to take care of himself so I stop worrying!<br><br>Lola: I'm on my way over. Shall I pick up some wine too?<br><br>Kat: Honey, you are a saint! I don't know how you do it!Cape Cod Galhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15831159202874959470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580811536270472661.post-5296486910565457182008-12-17T20:46:00.000-05:002008-12-17T20:46:00.000-05:00Of course you should pick up some wine! We'll...Of course you should pick up some wine! We'll sing drunken Christmas carols all night long.Lolahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07370267947354641941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4580811536270472661.post-28253656227349661532008-12-18T11:28:00.000-05:002008-12-18T11:28:00.000-05:00Good post.I can especially relate to the part abou...Good post.<br><br>I can especially relate to the part about your worries for Big K healthwise. MJ does the same thing to me. It's a little harsh, but the only thing that worked and got my ass into gear was when she told me she was becoming less physically attracted to me because of how much weight I gained. I know it sounds mean, but she knew it was the only thing she could say to me that would make a difference. It's funny that "I want you to live longer" didn't work, but "I'm not as attracted to physically anymore" worked like a charm.<br><br>I promptly lost 30 lbs.Daddy Fileshttp://daddyfiles.comnoreply@blogger.com