Quite recently, I had a friend call me a nympho. I can hear you all sighing a proverbial "Duh", under your breath. It's OK. He hadn't seen me in awhile. Sometimes people forget. But, what he said is true. I am.
Nympho: from nymphomanic from nymphomania: Excessive sexual desire in and behavior by a female.
Yup, guilty as Charlie Sheen in a whorehouse.
I love sex. Sex with a partner, sex with myself, talking about sex, thinking about sex, dreaming about sex, watching sex....you get it. I'm as crazy as a horny teenage boy who finds his older brothers stash of skin mags.
Buuuuuuuut, things haven't been all rosy, romantic and lovey-dovey lately in my life. In fact, I'm currently not speaking to the person that is suppose to be giving me the sex. By speaking, I mean having normal, human conversations. Screaming matches? That is something we've been having regularly and I have to say we may reach Eminem and Kim Mathers level. We're getting very good at it. So we're not having sex. Not even make up sex. Everyone's had dry spells before. And what do we do, Lovers? We reach for our favorite box of goodies. We keep ourselves satisfied until the storm blows over and we are free to fornicate again.
Well, nobody relayed that information to my crotch during this whole ordeal. My brain must be spending all its power working on my lack of appetite (you know I'm depressed when I don't want to eat) that the naughty messages were being stopped around my spleen or something. I've got nothing going on down there. Not even a twinge, twitch or tickle. I saw a picture of a shirtless VinDiesel and nothing. Nothing!! Usually the sight of him makes me go crazy and I'm breaking out the big toys. I've tried everything. I've Googled every hot actor with "shirtless" proceeding his name in the subject line. I even tried some Salma Hayek for the hell of it. I'm pretty sure this little ordeal hasn't made me line up for the other team, but Salma is usually good for a quick hit.
Nothing. Nada. Ziltch. Zero. Dwiddly Squat. No Dice.
I have come to the conclusion that my VaJay must be depressed too. Something must be wrong if it's not bothering me constantly to put things in it. The first sign should have been when I wore sweatpants to the mall last week. I know it's not against the law to do that. But, I usually make the outfit cute. Last week's ensemble told everyone at the mall my Vajay was depressed. I'm pretty sure it let everyone know I'm boycotting sleep too. I looked so bad the make up ladies at Macy's didn't bother me. They're probably still gossiping about the girl with the scary hair, bad makeup and depressed vagina.
So I'm wearing sweatpants in public, I'm not having sex and my VaJay is on strike. I'm still not a Lindsay Lohen level. I may be dangling around the Britney Spears zone. Maybe more towards the Tara Reid. I've passed Amanda Bynes ranking but did not chose the driving option. I did a David Hasselholf last week with a cheeseburger - but I did not do the drinking before hand.
Thank God I'm terrified of needles or I would have tattooed something ridiculous by now. But, not on my VaJay. Maybe I should. It might wake her up.