Yesterday afternoon I stumbled into the MensHealth.com forum to cruise around and get into men's heads. After I recovered from the initial shot of seeing that many men shirtless all at once, I decided to post a discussion in the forum and ask "What do men really want know about women?" I stressed that there were "no limits" on questions. Before the moderator shut down my discussion because I had to received permission from Men's Health before asking such questions, I got some interesting comments. I'm not sure why he shut me down. Apparently, the only discussions can be about weightlifting, the size of your penis/pecs/waist/thighs etc.
So, thank you Willie Dynamite for posting some questions and taking me seriously. Here is my opinion:
Why don't more women swallow?: First, I will go on the record as saying, yes I swallow. It's part of the whole act and my mother taught me that if you're not going to do something right, don't do it at all.
I think most women don't swallow because, truthfully, it really doesn't taste all that great. You may or may not know that the taste is a direct result of what the guy ate earlier that day. But, if you've ever gone down on a guy and he ate asparagus earlier on in the day, that will put you off the stuff for good. I would rather drink curdled milk. Men seem to think that all those girls in the porn films are telling the truth and all women want to be coated with the stuff. Maybe they do. But, it's sticky, it dries faster than superglue and is just as hard to get off. Also, if you don't give us an early warning that you're getting ready to blow (very bad manners if you don't), that stuff will hit us in the back of the throat like a geyser. I don't know if any one has ever clocked it, but I've been hit by a few shots that brought tears to my eyes.
If a women is with a guy that has good blow job etiquette, it's lots of fun and she probably will swallow. I just think most women haven't had that experience and it make them tentative.
Why are more women obsessed with the size of their asses then we are: I have 2 names for you: Jennifer Lopez - Pamela Anderson. Boobs and butts are the most common obsession points for men to women. If you obsess about it, we're going to obsess about it; the size, shape, is it lifting/drooping, hard, soft, round enough. The first thing I do when I try on a pair of jeans is twirl around and look at my ass in the mirror. It doesn't matter if they fit perfectly and price is right. If my ass looks the tiniest bit misshapen, I don't buy them. Just like most men obsess about the size of their penis. They think women are obsessing about the size and therefore think that it's really important. Although, from a personal perspective, I'm not a package girl. I want broad shoulders and a good butt.
Why do women tell us their problems and not want answers or solutions?: Because we already have the answer or the solution in our head. We're just trying to see if you have the same one. We're using you as a sounding board and doing a little venting on the side. It is an unfair practice and I try like hell not to do it. Most of the time the best defense is this questions: "That is a real problem. What do you think you should do?". That could possible backfired but it's better than giving your true opinion and she decides that you're an asshole because you don't agree with her.
Why do women use sex as a tool?: We use it because it has a proven track record of success. Sometimes it is the only way to get attention. It is a sneaky ploy and I have shamefully used it in the past.
I have lots more questions that have been posted and I will be using them sporadically as posts. I have some really good ones stored up for future use. Guys are really interested in a women's opinion. Bravo!